Dancing To Your Own Beat
Donna asks: Is it true an exotic dancer never dances with the beat of the music but [uses] the undercurrent of the song [instead]?
This particular question is actually a point on contention between many schools of pole dancing. So the answer is “It Depends.” (I always hated that particular answer though)
Basically there are 3 different views…
First, there’s the idea that you don’t have to listen to the music at all.
That you should perform whatever trick you want whenever you feel like it (or in a specified routine) but the music doesn’t have to match or even make sense. I’m just going to throw this one against the wall and out of the club. Because as far as I’m concerned, if you don’t even notice the music then you aren’t pole dancing, you’re pole tricking…which is a useful training method but NOT a worthwhile performance technique (okay rant over, sorry)
Second, there’s the premise that you find the “hidden beat” of the song.
I’ve heard this described at the “undercurrent” or the “underlying wave.” This particular technique is usually used during dance improvisation and in many ways I like it. It encourages the dancer to focus on not just the beat but also the effect the beat has on her heart, her emotions, and her non-logical, pure response body.
However, I think you can take this idea too far. To me, the point of dancing is to express your authentic self within the layers of music, within the physical studio space, using the tools and props and world around you. It’s a different and beautiful way to experience life in the current moment. And that includes the music you hear playing.
By ignoring the music entirely to focus on your own internal beat, you have stopped dancing and started meditating. I don’t believe there is anything fundamentally wrong with this, BUT a true exotic dancer knows that her performance must make a connection with the audience. If you are completely inside your own mind, then the audience is more like a peeping tom than a group of people experiencing your art. (I’ve actually had friends say that they felt like it was rude to watch me dance when I used this particular method)
To ignore the music is to sever your connection with the audience. And this is never the goal for an exotic dancer.
Lastly, there’s the technique where you dance specifically to the beat of the music you are using.
If you ask a professionally trained dancer, they will most likely say that this method is the only method that makes sense for a performance. And if we were all classically trained dancers with 15+ years of training in ballet, jazz, and tap, then I’d probably agree.
Because over time, your internal beat becomes automatic whenever the music hits you. Your body already knows that this extension of your arm is perfect for who you are right now and to match the emotional content of the song…. that this invert will feel amazing during a booming creshendo…. That rolling on the floor during the guitar solo makes the most sense within your muscle memory.
This, to me, truly defines performance art. But it doesn’t happen overnight and you can’t force it. Let me say that again, you can’t force it. You can create a routine that hits each beat. You can practice the routine until your feet bleed. You can perform it flawlessly in front of a starstruck audience (hello So You Think You Can Dance).
But unless you put your entire spirit into it, there will be something missing.
In the end I believe … An exotic dancer uses the beat as if it was her partner, expanding and contracting against him as the underlying wave calls to her.
Creating a never ending dynamic between his beating heart and her authentic soul.
| Which method do you use for performances? And which one do you use when you are alone? Share your ideas in the comment section! |
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